But I didn’t do the shopping and the planning, and I usually didn’t do the cooking. Now I get it. I put a lot of time into the Tetris game of meal planning for my family, yet I ask, “What would you like for dinner next week?” to indifferent replies.   So, let’s turn that indifference into some excitement. Put cauliflower steaks on sandwiches for a surprisingly hefty meal. Sauté a skillet of buttery, garlicky shrimp. Have fun with grown up pigs in a blanket. Yes! Now we’re talking. Even if you, the meal planner, are the only one listening.